Recognising and Recovering from Burnout: A Guide to Getting Back on Track

Manchester Counselling Therapy Team

May 27, 2025

May 27, 2025

INTRODUCTION

You don’t need to work 70-hour weeks or be in a crisis to experience burnout. Sometimes, burnout sneaks in quietly—through Sunday night dread, persistent fatigue, or the loss of joy in things that once energised you. For many in the UK, the pressures of work, home, and everything in between can slowly wear down our emotional reserves.

Burnout is more than feeling tired. It’s a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by prolonged stress. And while it's often linked to our jobs, it can stem from any sustained pressure—parenting, caregiving, studying, or simply trying to hold it all together.

In this article, we explore how to recognise the signs of burnout, how it differs from everyday stress, and most importantly, how you can begin to recover.

You don’t need to work 70-hour weeks or be in a crisis to experience burnout. Sometimes, burnout sneaks in quietly—through Sunday night dread, persistent fatigue, or the loss of joy in things that once energised you. For many in the UK, the pressures of work, home, and everything in between can slowly wear down our emotional reserves.

Burnout is more than feeling tired. It’s a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by prolonged stress. And while it's often linked to our jobs, it can stem from any sustained pressure—parenting, caregiving, studying, or simply trying to hold it all together.

In this article, we explore how to recognise the signs of burnout, how it differs from everyday stress, and most importantly, how you can begin to recover.

You don’t need to work 70-hour weeks or be in a crisis to experience burnout. Sometimes, burnout sneaks in quietly—through Sunday night dread, persistent fatigue, or the loss of joy in things that once energised you. For many in the UK, the pressures of work, home, and everything in between can slowly wear down our emotional reserves.

Burnout is more than feeling tired. It’s a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by prolonged stress. And while it's often linked to our jobs, it can stem from any sustained pressure—parenting, caregiving, studying, or simply trying to hold it all together.

In this article, we explore how to recognise the signs of burnout, how it differs from everyday stress, and most importantly, how you can begin to recover.

WHAT BURNOUT REALLY FEELS LIKE

Burnout often builds up gradually, making it hard to pinpoint when it begins. Many people dismiss the early signs, thinking they’re just going through a rough patch.

You might notice:

  • Constant fatigue, no matter how much you rest

  • Difficulty concentrating or making decisions

  • Feeling detached or numb

  • Becoming more irritable or withdrawn

  • A sense of dread about work or responsibilities

These symptoms don’t just affect your mind—they show up in your body too. Headaches, digestive issues, disrupted sleep, and lowered immunity are all common physical signs. According to a Mental Health UK survey, one in five workers feels unable to manage pressure and stress in the workplace.

Burnout often overlaps with anxiety and depression, but its roots lie in chronic overload. The longer it goes unaddressed, the deeper it can set in.

A person sits at a wooden table in a bright room with white shuttered windows, holding their head in contemplation, reflecting a moment of introspection possibly related to therapy and counselling discussions.
A person sits at a wooden table in a bright room with white shuttered windows, holding their head in contemplation, reflecting a moment of introspection possibly related to therapy and counselling discussions.

COMMON CAUSES OF BURNOUT

Burnout isn’t just about having too much on your plate—it’s about the conditions that make recovery impossible. Some common contributors include:

  • Unmanageable workload: Long hours, unrealistic deadlines, or constantly being "on."

  • Lack of control: Feeling powerless over your schedule, role, or responsibilities.

  • Poor work-life boundaries: Especially with remote work, the line between personal and professional life can blur.

  • Unclear expectations or values conflict: Working in a role that doesn’t align with your values or where feedback is inconsistent.

  • Isolation: A lack of support from managers, colleagues, or even friends and family.

Burnout can also arise from non-work-related roles—such as caring for a loved one or managing the pressures of parenting without adequate support.

RECOVERY DOESN’T MEAN “BOUNCING BACK”

Burnout recovery isn’t about snapping back to how things were. It’s about creating a new way of living—one where your needs aren’t sidelined.

Start with small shifts:

  • Rest that actually restores: Sleep is essential, but so is emotional rest. Spend time with people who lift you, engage in activities that don’t feel like a task.

  • Name the problem: Giving language to what you’re feeling (burnout, not laziness or weakness) is powerful.

  • Reassess boundaries: Where can you say no? Where can you ask for help?

  • Seek meaning: Reconnect with values and activities that feel purposeful. Even small acts of meaning can counter the emotional void of burnout.

If these steps feel overwhelming, start with just one. Recovery isn’t a race. It’s a reconnection.

A man and woman engage in a therapy session, seated in comfortable chairs in a bright room with a large window, capturing the essence of counselling in Manchester.
A man and woman engage in a therapy session, seated in comfortable chairs in a bright room with a large window, capturing the essence of counselling in Manchester.

WHEN TO SEEK SUPPORT

You don’t need to hit rock bottom to ask for help. If you’ve tried to make changes but still feel stuck, talking to a mental health professional can help you understand what’s happening—and how to move forward.

Therapy offers space to:

  • Untangle the root causes of burnout

  • Learn strategies to manage stress and emotional fatigue

  • Rebuild your sense of self outside your productivity

Left untreated, burnout can deepen into depression or anxiety. But with support, most people recover—and emerge more attuned to their needs.

Takeaway Advice

Takeaway Advice
Takeaway Advice

At Manchester Counselling, we help people not just cope with burnout, but understand it. Through our therapist-matching service, we connect you with someone who understands the toll of chronic stress and can guide you towards sustainable change.

You don’t need to keep pushing through. When you’re ready, we’re here to help you come back to yourself.

The Sources
The Sources
The Sources
Subject Areas
Subject Areas
Subject Areas
  • burnout symptoms UK

  • recovery from burnout

  • workplace burnout support

  • emotional exhaustion signs

  • therapy for burnout UK

  • how to spot burnout

  • chronic stress recovery

  • work-life balance mental health

  • mental fatigue UK support

  • stress vs burnout

Meet our

Recommended Therapists

A simple illustration of a bee with a yellow and black striped body and wings, alongside a curvy line.

Therapists